In Romans chapter twelve Paul gives the church some instructions, in that list is:
Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.
Helping the saints? No problem. Given to hospitality...well, that depends... what does hospitality mean?
philoxenia (source)
1) love to strangers, hospitality
Uh oh.
You've got problems lady (is what I have been saying to myself).
And there's this in the letter to the Hebrews:
Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
Who doesn't want to entertain angles? Apparently me, maybe, but how would I know?
You see I really,
really struggle with this. I am a major homebody and on top of that, I certainly don't want any BODY else in my home (not established friends or family you see, but strangers). Apparently, the rest of the world didn't get the memo, and I've got kids who live nearby coming over wanting to befriend my kids...and I don't like it.
Honestly, that is how I feel.
In trying to get other people to agree with me that I am completely right in this, I'm not getting the overwhelming support I want. I was
complaining about discussing this with someone for whom I have great respect yesterday and she didn't tell me what I wanted to hear.
I get it,
I have the problem, not them. Sigh. Ouch and Sigh.
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| You all just stay over there. |
And it's not that I don't want the kids to have friends, I just want to be in control of everything. Is that too much to ask? (waiting for validation).
So, I am seriously considering that I may have been wrong here.
There's a saying that it is easier to put on slippers than to carpet the whole world. (I think it was
Stuart Smalley who said that). So here's to putting on those slippers.
I want to trust God in this and obey and be hospitable.
Love ye therefore the stranger: for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt.